The essence of suffering is the belief in a self that asserts, "what IS
should not be the way it is". That stance obviously assumes that things
COULD be different, which is basic ignorance ... a product of the false
sense of "control". You are OUT OF CONTROL but you don't know that. That
is why I will now ask you, WHO is it that thinks or feels there is
"something wrong" ... with ANY appearance!?? As Byron Katie says, "who needs God when we have 'you'?"
"In reality all is here and now and all is one. Multiplicity and diversity are in the mind only." ~Sri Nisargadatta